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Prenatal Diagnosis of Down Syndrome
Dear pregnant mom who received a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome, I’m talking to you… The mom who was devastated by the news that your baby has Down syndrome. I’m not talking to the mom who was barely fazed, though you are welcome to read on (and maybe you can give me some tips on how you keep so calm and cool.) I’m talking to the mom who was literally brought to her knees, thinking her life was over, that she might never bond with her child, that she would never feel happy again. The mom who cried for months, gut-wrenching sobs that wracked her body, sadness only hidden when her…
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Down Syndrome Awareness Month – Inclusion
What’s the point of Down Syndrome Awareness Month? According to a quick search, it’s about showcasing the abilities and accomplishments of people with Down syndrome. It’s about spreading a message of advocacy and inclusion. It’s about celebrating people who have Down syndrome. Not everyone is ready to “celebrate Down syndrome” or get involved in raising awareness. In truth, my family has never participated in a Buddy Walk. We’ve never attended any local Down syndrome events or joined any clubs. Initially it was because I was very much in the “not ready to celebrate” camp. As time progressed, it was because Down syndrome is such a minor part of our life.…
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For the Casual “R” Word User…
There are those who use the word in a truly hurtful fashion, such as bullies on playgrounds. These individuals fully intend to hurt those at whom the “R” word is thrown. This note is not for them. This is for the casual user of the word. You may feel it’s not really offensive because you are using it in a self-deprecating or humorous manner. You’re wrong. It is offensive to say “I’m so retarded” when you do something like make a typo on Facebook or miss your turn while driving or forget someone’s birthday. Obviously you are not actually retarded. Therefore the question is, what ARE you saying? Your careless…
